What to Do If Your Child Learns Differently
Every child learns in a unique way, yet our education system was built around older norms and a narrow demographic. While schools are gradually adapting, the pace often lags behind the real‑time needs of today’s learners. Don’t get discouraged, there are plenty of resources to help you and your family navigate this journey.
1. Take a Breath – You’re Already Doing Great
Recognizing that something isn’t quite right is the essential first step. It signals that you’re ready to move forward, even if the road ahead feels long. Remember: progress is made one step at a time, and each step can be aligned with what truly matters to you and your child.
2. Trust Your Knowledge of Your Child
There’s a flood of information, advice, and opinions out there. While it’s useful to explore options and talk with other parents, you know your child best. Use your intuition and reliable sources to guide you. A common, effective pathway looks like this:
Start with your pediatrician – they can give you a holistic view of your child’s health and development.
Seek a specialist referral – a neuropsychologist or clinical psychologist experienced in learning differences can provide a detailed assessment of strengths and growth areas.
Consider a formal diagnosis – if you want clearer guidance and possible accommodations, an official diagnosis can be valuable. Some families choose not to pursue a diagnosis; the decision should fit your child’s and family’s needs.
3. Choose What Resonates With You
Based on what you observe and feel, select the next steps that address the most pressing needs. Availability can vary, sometimes there are long waitlists for certain specialists, so you might begin with a provider who’s currently open. Consistency and timing matter, but trust that steady progress will lead you where you need to go.
Types of Professionals Who Can Help
Area of Need:
Emotional well‑being:
Possible Providers: Mental‑health therapists, specialized coaches
Cognitive / Learning assessment:
Possible Providers: Neuropsychologists, clinical psychologists
Daily living skills:
Possible Providers: Speech‑language pathologists, occupational therapists, specialized coaches
Quick Reference
For a handy list of providers, check out the “Our Providers That Can Help” resource (link provided). Use it as a starting point, but remember that every family’s path is unique. Always discuss any new steps with a qualified healthcare professional before proceeding.
You’ve already taken the hardest part, which is recognizing the need for support. With the right resources and a patient, informed approach, you’ll find the strategies that empower your child’s learning journey. Here’s to educational success and beyond!